Supporting someone you care about who is struggling with substance addiction and dependence can be challenging and emotionally draining. It’s important to remember that while you want to help, you may also need support and guidance yourself. There are trusted services available to assist you in understanding addiction, managing your own wellbeing, and learning practical ways to support your loved one.
Educate Yourself: Learn about addiction and dependence. Understanding the nature of the condition helps reduce frustration and judgement.
Listen and Be Patient: Encourage open and honest communication without criticism. Let them know you are there to listen and support, not to judge.
Set Healthy Boundaries: Supporting someone does not mean tolerating harmful behaviour. Set clear limits to protect your own wellbeing.
Encourage Professional Help: Gently suggest that they seek treatment or support services, but avoid pressuring or forcing them. Change happens when they are ready.
Take Care of Yourself: Supporting someone else can be stressful. Make sure to maintain your own physical and mental health by seeking support and taking breaks.
Avoid Enabling: Don’t provide money or cover up consequences that allow the addiction to continue. Support means encouraging responsibility.
Stay Hopeful: Recovery is often a long journey with ups and downs. Celebrate small successes and remain supportive through setbacks.
Hamoaze House - Structured community day programme offering group support and education for families and friends affected by substance misuse.
Website: hamoazehouse.org.uk Helpline: 01752 251350
Al-Anon Family Groups 0 Support groups for relatives and friends of people with alcohol problems, providing emotional support and shared experiences.
Website: al-anonuk.org.uk Helpline: 0800 0086 811
Nar-Anon Family Groups - Peer support meetings for those affected by someone else’s drug addiction. Offers understanding and practical advice.
Website: nar-anon.co.uk Helpline: 0300 999 0100
Families Anonymous - Regular peer support meetings for family and friends impacted by addiction.
Website: famanon.org.uk Helpline: 0845 1200 660
Adfam - National charity providing information, advice, and support for families affected by drug and alcohol use.
Website: adfam.org.uk Helpline: 020 3817 9410
Family Lives - Offers advice and emotional support on a range of family issues including addiction. Confidential helpline available.
Website: familylives.org.uk Helpline: 0808 800 2222
SMART Recovery Family & Friends
Free online resources and meetings supporting family and friends affected by addictive behaviour.
Website: smartrecovery.org.uk/family-and-friends
Remember, supporting someone with addiction is a journey, and you don’t have to do it alone. Reach out to these free services for guidance, peer support, and practical help.
If you or someone you know needs urgent help or is in physical or psychological distress, call 111 for NHS medical advice. You can also call the Samaritans on 116 123. In an emergency, call 999.